Could have been Memories …

We as a people sit back and get upset sometimes about what we think should have been and then ponder why said things didn’t go the way we wanted them to.
Well, things happen for a reasons weather we can see why or not.
I know I know we have all heard this before and have been told that we must just have faith … this though doesn’t help it or make it any easer as we all know!
That being said … we must have faith that in the long run things will work out for the greater good and that in the end the guy who just lied to get the job that you had wanted will be found out … or that if he doesn’t that something else of equal bad might happen to him.
Some times though things don’t come clear and an answer cannot be found.
At least not in our lives that is, but we are going to move on to that a little latter in this topic.
What kind of world would it be in if we all got what we though we deserved?
What if everyone had won the Lotto?
Or, if everyone was able to keep that first childhood love, because it was right?
The world would be filled with people like Paris Hilton!
Do we really think a world of Hilton’s is a good ideal?
… Speaking about the Hilton’s, what happened to her sister Nicky anyway?
Option #1 Eaten by wolves and now trying to clone her from her three toes they found?
Option #2 Faked wolf attack and cut off a few toes so people would stop looking for her because she was so ashamed of her family?
Option #3 Cleaned up her act because she was afraid to see her girl parts all over the news like her sisters?
Nah, more likely something normal like … whisked away to a nunnery!
Back to the point though …
We also need the lowly blue color workers in the world and if we all had our choice no one would ever want to work in the New York Sewers now would they … OK Mike Rowe might but he is a different kind of strange … Steve Erwin would have too, but only because the alligators needed rescuing.
We need the negativity and pain though to grow and learn.
We need the heartbreak and horrors to show us, and or others, what it could be like in a world with no pain.
We might not like it or understand it, but, we all have our place and lot in life weather we decided to choose it or not.
We might have chosen to have this life though because it sucks and we might be abused or hungry but our souls can take it.
Hum, that might need more enlightenment …
I look at it like this (fade to your minds eye … but keep reading so stay in the real world … ok read this then try and picture it in your minds eye … yea that’s better … I think …)
So you are sitting up in your pre-spiritual world of your own choice and denomination, and you and your little sibling who is of a slower mind set, because even in this place we need to be better then everyone else, come up to the giant fire pole in the sky and the chief looks down and says ‘Wow little Pat your life is going to suck this time around!’ and then tells little Pat all about how bad it will be.
You being the good sibling that you are know that simple minded Pat can’t possibly survive this adventure and decide to step up and take the role yourself and plummet toward Earth knowing your life will suck but in the end you helped little Pat out.
You live your life out and ponder what you could have done to deserve this but in the end you get on to your afterlife and sit back realizing for the rest of time that you were the good sibling and it all makes since in the end living out eternity in a joyful mood.
(Insert warm and cuddly feeling here)
Meanwhile Pat ends up taking over your lot in life and ends up with a good life … being of a slower intellect and an inability to process things very well ends up throwing it all down the drain and befriends Paris Hilton.
The point is, we don’t know what the reason for our lives is.
It could be just so that one day a rich man sees me pandering on the street corner and it is just at that moment that everything in his world clicks and he turns from Scrooge into a wonderful charitable person and starts donates money to this and that.
It could be that your whole life is just so that one day when you are walking down the street you smile at a stranger for no good reason and the thoughts of the world being a horrible place and the thoughts of dirtying the front of a city bus flood out of his mind and he works toward and finds the cure for dog allergies … what a wonderful world that would be!
We just never know!
So, enjoy what you have, look forward to the future & don’t dwell on the past and what we think ‘Could have been Memories’ and have faith in the thought that everything does happen for some reason weather we understand it or not.